> ## Content Index > Fetch the complete content index at: https://www.mikebakerhq.com/llms.txt > Use this file to discover other available public pages before exploring further. # Still Here, Still Trying - URL: https://www.mikebakerhq.com/books/still-here-still-trying/ - Published: 2026-08-02T05:55:00.000Z - Updated: 2026-08-14T01:13:55.000Z - Description: For people carrying more than they say, and still trying to love, lead, heal, repair, and stay soft. - Author: Mike Baker - Tags: #book, #what-we-carry, #Import 2026-08-02 10:18 [Buy on Amazon →](https://a.co/d/0f21pXUK?ref=mikebakerhq.com) [Free companion workbook](#workbook) Paperback and hardcover · First edition, 2026 ## Why this book exists Some days, “still here, still trying” sounds almost too simple. Then life gets heavy enough that it becomes the only honest sentence left. You are not finished, fixed, fearless, or certain. You are present. You care. You are trying to take the next step without pretending the weight is not real. This book begins in the ordinary places where that work happens: a driveway after a brutal day, a kitchen where one missed task carries more meaning than the task, a phone call that changes the room, a doctor’s office, a leadership meeting, a late-night creative spiral, or the quiet ache of missing the little versions of children who have grown up. From the outside, a person may look steady while carrying fear, work pressure, family worry, body changes, grief, doubt, shame, and a brain that will not quiet down. The book makes room for that hidden load. It refuses the idea that suffering only counts when it becomes dramatic enough for other people to notice. It also refuses to let good intentions become the end of the story. Love has to get practical. Apologies have to cost something. Leadership means carrying pressure without passing it down. The people closest to us experience our patterns, not only the loving explanations inside our heads. That accountability is not a case for shame. Shame makes people hide, defend, perform, or disappear. The better work is return: notice what landed, tell the truth, make the repair, change the behavior, and come back to the person or responsibility that still deserves your care. Creativity belongs here too. Songs, stories, art, humor, and honest conversation do not fix a life. They give pain somewhere to breathe. They help us name what we carry, stay in conversation with our own lives, and offer another person the relief of knowing they are not the only one. Hope in these pages keeps its eyes open. It can sit beside grief, chronic pain, mental-health fear, marriage strain, burnout, financial pressure, aging bodies, and calls that change everything. It tells the truth first, then asks what small act of care is still possible. Still Here, Still Trying exists for the tired person who is still showing up. It is not a demand to become perfect. It is an invitation to stay close to your actual life, let love reach behavior, and keep returning with enough honesty and tenderness to do the next right thing. > Still here, still trying does not mean the story got easy. It means the story is still worth entering with love. ## Who it's for This book is for husbands, wives, parents of grown children, caregivers, leaders, healthcare workers, creators, people with ADHD, people rethinking faith, and anyone who looks capable while privately wondering how much more they are supposed to carry. It is for readers who want companionship and practical honesty rather than a polished performance of healing. ## Who it's not for This book is not a cure, clinical guide, leadership formula, marriage manual, or promise that small acts erase serious harm. It does not ask readers to bypass grief, romanticize pain, remain in unsafe situations, or replace professional care with inspiration. It offers personal stories and reflection; medical, mental-health, legal, financial, and safety decisions belong with qualified professionals. ## Questions it answers - What do we do with the pressure no one else can fully see? - How can love become visible in ordinary behavior instead of staying an intention? - What makes an apology meaningful enough to rebuild trust? - How can a leader carry weight without leaking it into the room? - What changes when children grow up and parenting has to become more openhanded? - How do ADHD, shame, creativity, and responsibility live in the same person? - Can faith change shape without erasing the rooms and people that formed us? - Why are humor, music, art, and friendship allowed in the hard parts? - What does honest optimism sound like when life does not get easy? - How do small returns become a life of repair, connection, and hope? ## Inside The introduction begins with the strong face and the tired truth beneath it. Part One, When Life Gets Heavy, names the quiet work no one sees, phone calls that change everything, changing bodies, practical love, and the things people carry behind decent answers. Part Two, What Still Holds, turns toward the people who keep us here, humor in hard rooms, the man still becoming, ADHD and support, songs that help truth find language, faith and doubt, and the choice to stay human when the world gets loud. Part Three, How We Keep Going, moves from insight to behavior: apologies that cost something, leadership without passed-down pressure, lessons from adult children, small things that save us, honest optimism, and the ordinary returns that make change real. The afterword asks readers to name the people who helped keep them here and tell them specifically, then choose one ordinary act of love small enough to do and real enough to matter. Across all three parts, the through line is practical hope: tell the truth about what is heavy, stay human, and make the next act of care visible. ## Before you start This book discusses grief and death, cancer and other illness, chronic pain, healthcare experiences, medical uncertainty, anxiety, depression, trauma, mental-health fear, ADHD, shame, burnout, financial and workplace pressure, aging and changing bodies, marriage strain, parenting adult children, faith transitions and doubt, criticism, conflict, and emotional exhaustion. Some names and identifying details were adjusted to protect privacy while preserving emotional truth. The book is personal reflection and storytelling, not medical, mental-health, legal, financial, or professional advice. ## A note from me I wrote this from inside an unfinished life. I am still learning to love Kellie in the practical details, father adult children with open hands, lead without letting pressure leak, live responsibly with ADHD, and create without giving critics a permanent seat at the table. I know what it is to look strong and feel terrible: the driveway pause after work, the loud brain at night, the sting when honest work reaches fewer people than you hoped, and the guilt of realizing someone you love carried the impact of what you meant to do. The lesson keeps returning to ordinary places. Notice the thing. Put the phone down. Answer with your full attention. Make the appointment. Ask the better question. Apologize before explaining. Let the person beside you receive more than the day tried to leave behind. None of this means the heavy parts disappear. Grief still returns. Bodies keep changing. Work asks too much. Faith holds questions. Brains get loud. People miss one another. The practice is coming back with enough humility to let truth become behavior. If you are tired, these pages are not another verdict on how well you are handling life. I hope they feel like company. You do not have to become perfect before you love the life in front of you. Start with one honest act of care. Let it be small enough to do today and real enough to matter. ## How this book was made The copyright page says it and so will I: AI-assisted tools were used in parts of the creative and editorial process. The voice, the stories, the memories, the judgment, and every final choice are mine. The full position is on the [AI creative disclosure](https://www.mikebakerhq.com/ai-creative-disclosure/) page. Paperback ISBN 9798199674218 · Hardcover ISBN 9798180500625 263 pages · First edition, published 30 June 2026 · Mike Baker HQ, Coeur d'Alene, Idaho ## Continue reading - This Book Won’t Fix Your Life. Offers grounded company for hard days, small steps, and hope that does not require everything to be perfect. - The Better Man Field Guide. Turns good intentions into practical responsibility, repair, listening, and behavior the people closest to us can actually feel. - Human First. Carries the same commitment to dignity, presence, empathy, and choosing people over the noise pulling us apart. Print it, fill it in by hand, keep it somewhere you will actually see it. The Load on the TableThe Bad-Day MinimumThe Ask-for-Help PageThe Promise I Can KeepWhat Is Still Here [Download the workbook (PDF) →](https://www.mikebakerhq.com/assets/downloads/still-here-still-trying-workbook.pdf) ![Still Here, Still Trying album art by Mike Baker](https://www.mikebakerhq.com/content/images/2026/08/album-still-here-still-trying-album.jpg) Companion work Still Here, Still Trying — the album I wrote an album alongside this book, out of the same material. Fourteen songs, same title. 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