What to Do When She’s Having an Endometriosis Flare
Your partner is having an endometriosis flare. Here’s what helps, what to have ready, what to avoid, and how to recognize when she needs medical care.
Read the full essay →Author of the Human First books, CEO of Heritage Health, host of Still Here, Still Trying, songwriter and endometriosis advocate in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho.
Your partner is having an endometriosis flare. Here’s what helps, what to have ready, what to avoid, and how to recognize when she needs medical care.
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